Pretention or Drastic Change?

Hi Guys,

Today I came across my old college friend.
I mean I saw her profile on Orkut n was amazed to see her in mini skirt n small tight t-shirt. Actually the gal I knew from college days was a gal who was staying in typical Indian dress most of the times. Sometimes in causals like jeans n t-shirt but that too not so high fashioned. N now what m looking at is an ultra modern gal who behaves like n American (she's in America now after getting married to a rich American desi) who's trying to leave a mark on others with drastic change she has made in herself.

I don't know how a person (who stayed simple n sober for 4 years of college life) got changed so extensively withing a period of few months n became so smart n ultra modern. I m not sure whether she's pretending to b like this or she has become like this but its almost unbelievable to see her like that. Just like the dialogue of Amitabh Bacchan, now She talks in English, She walks in English n even dresses like English as if she wants to prove her point.

I've seen many of my friends (I can say 80% of my good friends) going abroad but not seen anyone changing this much. If she's not pretending, is it possible to change yourself in this short period of not more than 4 months? cause for me changes happen gradually not drastically. n if she is pretending, why does she want to do it?

I have a friend of mine, who pretends to be what he's not n even you guys would have seen many people who pretend to be what they are not.

Why do people pretend?

Confusion all around. Need to find some answer to this. Please send in your comments if you can get what exactly is the issue.

Saurabh

Here I Go...........

Here I go.........

It's high time now since I've been reading blogs of people n don't have one of my own.
I can bet that I would be the last among all my dear ones in starting my own blogspot so that proves how lazy I am.
But my laziness has something in it that always keeps me thinking bout my life and difference prospective of it.
A great philosopher has said "There ain't no any vaccume inside ur mind" it means it keeps on thinking something or d other.
I want to reveal some facts of life through my blog u'll like some n u'll not like some (conditionally if u read them). Few will find it weird but m ready to take all the comments.

So wait for the next one.
Cheers
Suru